AVOID Let-downs to Stand-up with Happy You.

Many of us love desserts after dinner, but we need to avoid excess sugar for better health. Avoiding is not same as disliking or ignoring something. We may want something, but that thing may not be right for us. 

Few of us have natural instinct & skills of avoiding agitated situations. But, many of us don’t have guts to escape conflicts & disappointments. Want to avoid unhappiness? Here we go for revision of some known way outs:

👎Most important, we should never avoid people for their (unintended) mistakes in past. And, if we have made such mistake, it’s Okay! Confess & apologise for it. But, for one  such let-down, don't let such things/ people occupy space in your head forever. We can always avoid such people, who keep re-reading about our earlier failures.

👎We can always keep safe distance from originators of negativity. We can sidestep people who may deliberately or frequently hurts & threatens our joy. They may direct a drama casting us (the victim) as the villain. They may destroy your self-confidence.

👍We can avoid expecting anything from anyone (including yourself), to escape messing up with our head & heart. But, we can happily hang out with positive people. Prioritise people who respect & inspire. They may indirectly affluence & bring out the finest.

👍 We can aim success, but we can’t avoid failures coming on the way to the desired peak you dreamt about.. Don’t fear criticism, just avoid over thinking. Keep innovative spirit alive within & accept the consequences. But, be selective about endeavours!

And finally, if someone is avoiding you, then judge yourself less, keep moving & stop disturbing that person.

Don’t doubt your existence.... Don’t close eyes to yourself... Don’t side-step your Life!