PATIENCE: Learn to allow more time!

Patience is the top-secret bargaining power to win over the people’s heart & mind. It is how you behave while you’re waiting. It is tireless courage in tiresome state of affairs.

Lack of patience is a response to whatever unacceptable is going on around. You can feel the stress. Patience give calmness of mind; making it easier to ride in ups and downs without being thrown out in life. To remain stress-free; to make swift decisions; here are some tips:

1. Differentiate: you may be knowing the triggers already. Notice how impatience arises specifically; when people or situation or thoughts aren’t compatible to our prospects; which are often unrealistic. It’s natural but; certainly being impatient doesn’t put a stop to it! 
2. Accept: You are caught up in it & it feels unpleasant; accept it..! It helps you to change the way you respond when you are impatient; gives you a chance to learn from it and perhaps uncover reasons; you may have the power to change. 
3. Unexpected: Yes, you have plans, but things don't always work out as planned. Accept the twist and turns in life gracefully. Keep your expectations realistic. Remember that life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Take it lightly you are not alone. 
4. Exclusive: Each person is charmingly unique with disparate interests and styles; no one sees and does things exactly as you do. Appreciation for individuality; help you be more loving and more lovable. Remind yourself often that the world is not all about you. 
5. Adapt: It needs patient practice. Treat yourself with compassion over your inability to be patient at times. Ask yourself: “Is there anything I can do to change the situation?” Begin to emphasis on something amusing or attention-grabbing while you’re waiting. 
6. Let go off: If there isn't anything that you can do to resolve, just let it go. Easier said than done, yes, but it's possible, and it's the only right thing to do. Patience is a lot about what you don't do. It's about holding back when you are about to lose. 
7. Conscious: Most of the time in life, we don’t get our first choice. Make a conscious choice; supported up by concerted efforts. You are likely to do a superior job of conquering the skill in question; you will eventually get what you want. 
8. Prioritise: Ask yourself “why you find it so upsetting, then try to separate important things from things that make little or no difference to you. If you're impatiently busy, you're more likely to give up on things that are important to you. Chances are that your patience may get paid off. 
9. Habit: Impatience is neither a character imperfection nor an inborn personality attribute. It's a tough lesson that can be learned, unlearned & replaced by new that you will never forget. New habits are not learned overnight, so don't be too hard on yourself when you slip back. 

We live in an impatient era, wanting & trying to make everything & everyone around us move faster at a pace we command. Rushing upsurges the risk of blunders and mishaps, which can end up costing more.

Being patient is a tactic of treating well & reaching out to yourself when you are suffering. Life takes time… Gradually conditions will change… Give yourself a break… Prepare… Have patience, first of all with yourself… Find patience in the breath of life.