B+ is not just a blood group… it should be rolling into your blood. Your thoughts get reflected in your actions, and your actions build perception of your personality in others mind. And, first impression may not be the last impression now a days… but it’s going to be a lasting impression for sure.Life is like a highway road… long enough with lots of ups & downs. But, keep moving with a hope that these speed breakers are just to control speed, so that accidents can be avoided. Positivism doesn’t always come natural; you need to look at the brighter side…
1. Take time & go slow: Sometimes, it’s better not to force yourself to be positive. Give some time to yourself, to think, to feel, to analyses, to understand & decide…engage yourself in self talk. Only then, thing will work well as your body & mind will calm down. There is nothing wrong in being slow on right path.
2. Check surroundings: Hear to all, listen to limited & follow fewer people! Try to spend more time with people who boost you up, instead of pulling you back. Try to improve/ change your outlook as well as outer world. Control your inner world of thoughts, where everything begins. Escape tagging & remembering negative thoughts; they are not facts.
3. Fight Fear: Fight back to that random toxic fear “What will happen?” just calm down and ask “what is the most horrible that can realistically materialise?” take deep breath and ask again “What can be the smallest of achievement that can add to my dairy?” and, constructive perspective will flourish & follow easily.
4. Healthy criticism: Criticism unavoidable. So just listen, it isn’t always about you. It may help you, so just don’t reply right back, right now. If it is a nasty attack on you, then; let it go. Don’t blame your negativity on outside world. First, you need to get rid of your own negative behaviours. Perfection isn’t the goal, when it comes to positivity.
5. Be Optimistic: Positivity nurtures the tendency to be optimistic in attitude. It help you overcome the toughest of challenges and attracts more opportunities. You must have curiosity “How something new can be done successfully & in a better way”, instead of wondering “Can I do it? I can’t do it! Who else can do it?” Be good & honest with yourself and it is okay to not like everything about yourself.
6. Grab opportunities: It’s always better to take up an opportunity, you may fail at first, or you may make some mistakes. Be aware of all negativity as well. Not trying to overcome negativity is the biggest mistake of all times. Sometimes these failures & mistakes are the learning experience & becomes the greatest teacher who guide throughout the journey of you success.
The world is round & small enough, spread positivity and it will come back to you. Don’t stick to past or think about future, they drag you down. So, live the pleasant present moments right here, right now… and B+++
Good points for 'Being Positive'. Only suggestion I would like to add is to 'Be yourself for 20-25 minutes' especially in the morning hours. It makes lot of difference if you close your eyes and become thoughtless, even for a second. That would be the start of inner self awareness process and a unending road to eternal happiness, ultimately spreading positivity around you.
ReplyDeleteAgain very well arranged and written article. Enjoy blogging, enjoy Life.
Well written....
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