To whom should I Listen "the outer world or the inner self"? 😇
Our capability to listen effectively to the voice of outer world is judged. It’s our ability to absorb the inputs from outer world with open mind, congestion free heart & a generous soul. A desire of being a better listener comes with many benefits: easily approachable, become trust worthy & get more information.
Our talent & desire to realise, understand and accept the voice of inner self; is the most neglected but surprisingly; the most essential listening skill. Voice of inner self include the thoughts from mind, the emotions from heart and the passion from soul.
😊 Listening to self is a ground work, before you appear as a listener in front of the world. Look inside yourself, to have confident eye contact with speaker.
😐Have empathy while listening; for a better understanding of the feelings & words of the speaker. Avoid developing & offering an immediate solution. Rather, be a facilitator to find a solution.
😉 Ask appropriate questions to the speaker to clarify and conform the main idea. Remember to give conscious feedback through words & facial expressions.
Objective is to LISTEN to absorb, understand & LEARN. First of all, acknowledge that you have listen keenly. Wait a while, be patient before you evaluate, judge, form any opinion & convey the reply.
All in all, before we start speaking, we need to complete the listening first.
A seed with full of potential to yield at its best may give different results based on the circumstances where it is seeded. The circumstances is the source of energy to the seed. So, the energy is the basis of any seed or any body to groom. If you feel that you are a good seed you look for the appropriate source of energy to attain your best. If you feel that you are the energy then you can be the source of the seeds to demonstrate its energy. Both are good in God's book. Am I right?
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