Original self is worth more, let the world deal with the genuine you: EMOTIONS

Emotions are natural feelings of love - envy, shame - pride, greed - satisfaction, fear - hope… driven from circumstances or relationships. Don’t let emotions regulate talks, decisions & life. These should be based on knowledge & rational thinking.

Sometimes we don’t understand ourselves. Even then, we claim that we understands others very well! We feel happy & the very next moment, we feel very sad. These chaos may eats-up our relationship dynamics & complicate it further, leaving no space for patch-up.

Emotional turmoil get opportunity to pop-up as soon as we carelessly make cocktail of our feelings with another person’s feelings. It can be our emotional matrix with our family, friends and workplace companions. We can call for self-help to fix it. Or, we can start & play a never ending blame game by finding faults! This will drain all our brain.

We have an expected image of ourselves which we like others to see as. Here, the real problem starts when we start comparing our actual with expected image. Our moral belief system sets up of some mix of false & True self-worth.

We have high self-esteem due to some of our realized & actual good qualities that keep pushing us to put our best foot forward. At the same time, we keep trying hard to hide our low self-esteem from others. Eventually, we develop a false self-worth. We need to stop degrading & marking “Not good enough” to ourselves.

As well as; our mind is occupied with lots of junk about the actual & false images of other people. We create fabricated image of others based on our past experiences, belief system, current circumstances & our current state of mind. We keep on describing & dealing with the people based on falsely fabricated image of them in our mind.

Best enduring way out is to be aware of these unnoticed forces that trap us & bring changes. Monitor internal & external dialogue, keep track of thinking. Look at the world around through clean glasses. Most of the time, impression in our mind & point of views are imaginary.

Let’s be aware & stop assuming. Let’s accept ourselves just the way we are. Let’s accept others rationally just the way they are. Let’s appreciate & integrate. It will lessen the conflicts & disappointments unconditionally.

Stop changing behavior to gain attention & to avoid rejection. Let all this come naturally. Don’t get trapped into reasoning for verdicts, opinions and beliefs.

We cannot stop emotions! We need to cry hard to release grief. We need to talk & laugh out loud to share & spread joy. Recognize the misleading details & clarify them.

Engage with life. Go with empathy. Be energetic & confidant. Emotions doesn’t come with warnings! From reaction switch on to response!

FUN: "Please like ME" is the aim & will always be, pop humour to be cherished!

One does not need to be all thoughtful... all the time! Break the ice... don’t be over self-conscious. Try smiling and laughing more frequently… Laughter is infectious, it help integrate yourself with the society. It can be used to develop cohesiveness by disseminating undesirable state of affairs.

Being able to find a short-lived-little idiosyncrasy is loved by almost all. Everyone loves a charming persona, who can giggle by bring hilarious angles to the steady stuffs of life. Humour lessens social anxiety in awful situations and has positive psychological effects.

No one can teach you "How to be funny?". Good sense of humour does not emerge overnight. It's just something you are or you are not. But, the good news is that “You can be!” Yet, it is important that humour comes out naturally in an easy-going and extemporaneous style. Otherwise, it would have undesirable impression.

😉Be easy with yourself & spend more time with naturally funny friends. Especially, focus on the awkward story in the world around you & be keen to catch humour in it. Do not be scared of sharing on what made you laugh. But be cautious, it could make you or others feel uncomfortable.

😊Escape memorising and re-telling older tales. Tales from the past are not off limits, they can still entertain people, if delivered in different style. The peculiar mechanism of being funny is to be more personal to get more success. It help audiences open-up.

😋Don’t initiate by making jokes about someone else. You can gently poke fun at others, if you find a light-hearten situation. Do not make jokes at people with difficult experiences in life. Don’t make fun of people with physical or cognitive disability.

😎Work on your timing. If you notice something funny, do not wait too long to point it out. Seize the moment! Sarcastic remarks popped into chat, work well when delivered quickly. Hang onto stories in short & simple way, as too much details will not magnetise the audience.

No matter who you are & no matter what others think, it’s the terror of failure that holds you back from trying different things. Sometimes, some ideas are going to be huge letdowns. It's going to happen again and again. But, you have to take risks.

Keep challenging yourself to find fresh, exciting & moving topics. Try… give it a shot & practice it, to makes someone laugh every day (Including yourself).

Keep IGNORE mode ON *T&C applied

When you ignore… you set that thing free! Then only; the wonderful discoveries come out to make you amazed. Try ignoring kids… they will surly astonish you! Learn from kids “how to create their own fun land” when they are not looked upon.

Don’t feel bad, if someone refuse to acknowledge you; as people often ignore expensive to afford things! Say nothing but refuse to take notice of people who creep up your joyfulness. Fewer the response… the more peaceful your life will be.

Long back, I heard “Ignorance is the best way to annoy you enemy”. You need not always fight to win the battle… be selective, it may not be worth your time & efforts. Sometimes Intelligent response is ‘NO response at all’.

Identify your enemies carefully, they are not always human beings! They may be anything unpleasant, may be an information or may be a situation for a while! Noticing & knowing them may do more harm than good to you? So, better ignore them!

It’s true that ignoring certain thing may craft complications for you. But; to avoid worsening of life, sometimes, it’s better to be unaware of certain things; whatsoever they are. It’s better not to know & worry about these things, if you can’t do anything to bring a better change?

There are many information, which is of no use to you & they may overload your mind with junk. And, there are many information that will unnecessarily keep bothering you & they may do new damages to your body & mind. Remember ‘the things you don't know can’t upset you’.

It’s very common & correct; you should not believe everything that you see or listen. One of the essentials for rational thinking is to inspect the facts; as everything you see or listen is not always true. Unwillingness to clear illusion may bring big, big, big trouble to you. After all, true knowledge-is-power!

Knowledge influences you. Illusion of knowledge may lead to negative effect on how you define & view the thing. It may make you lose sight to what is right & real. You will surely agree with it that “sometimes, living may be easy with eyes closed” but, “life is going to be very tough with closed mind, always”.

‘Curiosity killed the cat’ as this old saying suggest; there is no need to know everything; it’s not always good know them. So, some facts should be better left unknown. You should first decide & then deal with them on "need-to-know basis”.

Wilful ignorance is the purposeful practice of disregarding inputs that contradict your inner model of truth & peace. Ignorance is not always negative as well as it is very tough to pretend that you don't mind. Real awareness is knowing the degree of ignorance required.

Ignorance has its place in life. Though, ‘Ignorance is a strength’ but without any doubt ‘ignorance in action towards self as well as others” is never ever desirable. Like so much in life, it is good to have a balance between Ignorance & knowledge.

Whether ignorance is worthy or not, it all depends on what it relates to. At times, it will be the finest way out and at other times it won’t. This you will have to decide for yourself. Not always but surely sometimes, ignorance is a bliss that can bless you for life time.