STRAIGHT-FORWARDNESS is a step forward for enlightened growth!

Delusion in thoughts creates false identity. An individual who think something, saying something else and do something entirely different; such an individual fails to maintain his trustworthiness. Such individuals lives with continuous fear of their trick being uncovered. Such deceitful actions lead to the influx of stress. 

Lack of drama & mind games makes things very easy. Sometimes straight forwardness is unpleasant but effective. Don’t confuse straight-forwardness with rudeness. Rudeness is just an imitation of strength. Saying what you feel & what you believe, it is how you can handle the truth, it’s being real and straightforwardness is real strength. But, don’t let your straight-forwardness become rudeness. 

First, be honest to yourself and recognize your true self. One should practice to have divine harmony in your thought, wards and actions. It’s a state of supreme bliss. Bring straight-forwardness by being true & honest to self and everyone else. Then, you will never need to think twice before any action or opinion. 

Say things straight up to other person’s face. Avoid talks behind other’s back. Avoid bring up the past in between. Avoid talking about yourself all the time. Avoid speaking more rather listen more. If you can’t understand things, then you can’t explain them in simple ways. Be real… and forgive yourself for 'the perfection is not achieved'. Don’t be afraid of being straightforward, it is a step forward for enlightened growth.

FORGIVE

Although, it is not always easy to forgive. Sometimes the pain is deeper than the wounds visible to the world. Stop touching & scratching the wounds, if you want to heal them. It doesn’t approve what happened was correct. But, when you don’t forgive, then you are the one who is inflicting the sufferings. Every time you forgive others or ask for forgiveness, you move towards perfection, with lesser mistakes each day, towards stress free life each moment. It’s better to grab the awakening lessons & move on with a positive attitude.

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Choose to be GENTLE... thoughtful wards & mild manners..!

Gentleness is divine. It is understanding others & being kind towards them with a fellow feeling. Leave all your pride and believe that every soul is equal in order to understand your own true self.

All that is won by force is temporary. Don’t raise your voice or hands or desires; raise them for prayer, praise & dreams only. You have potential to control or even damage the thing, but still choose to be careful about your wards & action.

Gentleness can only be expected from strong by not being angry and cruel. Don’t be offensive rather be gentle, it needs courage to keep your powers & strength under control.

FORGIVE Quickly..! It’s an art to win over the natural instinct to pay back evil with evil.

Anger & hatred eats us alive. Let’s find keys to get yourself free from agony. Forgiveness puts an end to resentment and retaliation which makes you suffer the most.

Inculcate positivity to understand that people can make mistake. Forgiving is not an excuse for wrong behavior or deeds. It’s a better choice to forgive because it changes the life by bringing peace & making you stronger. Forgive others, not just because they desire or deserve it, but because staying with the burden of some annoying talks or events can rob all our health & happiness. Sometimes, people hurt you because of anger due to their own misery, they need help rather than punishment. So, forgive as quickly as you expect others to forgive you.

As well as, be careful about your doings & wordings, once they are delivered, they can be only forgiven but they may not be forgotten. There is nothing wrong in accepting your own mistakes and wrong doings. It need a lot of courage to accept, admit, apologies, act to correct it & not repeat it. It sets us free from the weight of guilt burning deep inside our heart. No one is perfect, we make mistakes, but when we say sorry, we should actually mean it…! And, find out "What can be done to correct it?"

The most important steps towards peaceful wholeness is:

👉Forgive yourself for lesser knowledge, it can be learned & acquired.

👉👉Forgive yourself for lesser physical fitness, it can be gained & developed.

👉👉👉Forgive yourself for lesser perfections, it can be achieved by practice.

The weak can never forgive. But the stronger ones forgive more & judge less to freeing yourselves of negative energy that bind you. But, don’t let anyone pull you low enough, that you start hating, better try to escape that situation & best become so worthy that no one try to do so.

Cherish all the good things happened to you & let go off your pride to forgive, if you still want someone in your life as well as if you still want peace of mind. Forgiveness is persistent efforts for the wellbeing of yourselves. Forgiving is compassion towards self. It is our intelligent choice to see people as they are now and act in present.

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