Choose to be GENTLE... thoughtful wards & mild manners..!

Gentleness is divine. It is understanding others & being kind towards them with a fellow feeling. Leave all your pride and believe that every soul is equal in order to understand your own true self.

All that is won by force is temporary. Don’t raise your voice or hands or desires; raise them for prayer, praise & dreams only. You have potential to control or even damage the thing, but still choose to be careful about your wards & action.

Gentleness can only be expected from strong by not being angry and cruel. Don’t be offensive rather be gentle, it needs courage to keep your powers & strength under control.

FORGIVE Quickly..! It’s an art to win over the natural instinct to pay back evil with evil.

Anger & hatred eats us alive. Let’s find keys to get yourself free from agony. Forgiveness puts an end to resentment and retaliation which makes you suffer the most.

Inculcate positivity to understand that people can make mistake. Forgiving is not an excuse for wrong behavior or deeds. It’s a better choice to forgive because it changes the life by bringing peace & making you stronger. Forgive others, not just because they desire or deserve it, but because staying with the burden of some annoying talks or events can rob all our health & happiness. Sometimes, people hurt you because of anger due to their own misery, they need help rather than punishment. So, forgive as quickly as you expect others to forgive you.

As well as, be careful about your doings & wordings, once they are delivered, they can be only forgiven but they may not be forgotten. There is nothing wrong in accepting your own mistakes and wrong doings. It need a lot of courage to accept, admit, apologies, act to correct it & not repeat it. It sets us free from the weight of guilt burning deep inside our heart. No one is perfect, we make mistakes, but when we say sorry, we should actually mean it…! And, find out "What can be done to correct it?"

The most important steps towards peaceful wholeness is:

👉Forgive yourself for lesser knowledge, it can be learned & acquired.

👉👉Forgive yourself for lesser physical fitness, it can be gained & developed.

👉👉👉Forgive yourself for lesser perfections, it can be achieved by practice.

The weak can never forgive. But the stronger ones forgive more & judge less to freeing yourselves of negative energy that bind you. But, don’t let anyone pull you low enough, that you start hating, better try to escape that situation & best become so worthy that no one try to do so.

Cherish all the good things happened to you & let go off your pride to forgive, if you still want someone in your life as well as if you still want peace of mind. Forgiveness is persistent efforts for the wellbeing of yourselves. Forgiving is compassion towards self. It is our intelligent choice to see people as they are now and act in present.

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Patience

Being patient is a tactic of treating well & reaching out to yourself when you are suffering.
Life takes time…
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Optimistic

The world is round & small enough, spread positivity and it will come back to you. Don’t stick to Past or think about future, they drag you down. So, live the pleasant present moments right here, right now… and B+++

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Opinion

Even though a reliance in self is commendable and maybe excusable, even if harmful consequences arise, what is less justifiable is when opinions are based on assumptions instead of facts.

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Self Confidence

If you can defeat the ‘terror of failure’ then, self-confidence can lead the path to success which even you can’t envision.

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Self Esteem

It’s a journey from “I wish I had” to “I’m glad I did”. Remember you can have anything in this world, if you just have faith in yourself. Self-esteem is key to great social effectiveness. Chin-up sweetie you are intelligent… beautiful… smart… adorable… successful… in your own unique way…

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Self Worth

Can we build “I am ME?” a sense of our own value which is fairly true to ourselves? Of course yes; look for positive associations with others and just list down your personal strengths, abilities & areas of improvements. Then; set achievable goals based on your needs, wants & desires. Recognize your achievements at each milestone on the way and don’t forget to reward yourselves… you will surly come to know the awesome “Who” you are.

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VERSATILE: challenge your limits to bring resilience!

Don’t let your personality to get trapped in definite limits rather challenge your limits to peruse different endeavors. Don’t claim fame, rather focus on next step, the limelight will follow you.

Don’t get stuck to old principles or skills, new opportunities may require you to forgo the old and find new ways and means. Versatility is not about just becoming better at what you do. It doesn’t mean that you need to work harder & more. 

Being versatile means being good at many skills, knowing many concepts, capable of dealing with many different people & circumstances. If you can’t influence the world according to you, you should adapt to move ahead. It is about being able to do something you have not been able to do before. 

First and foremost, be assertive & active to be versatile. Keep on adding new skills & knowledge to be capable to experiment. Look out for improvement; slight twist can renovate ordinary to unusual. Think ahead, differently & prepare now. Appoint yourself for positive self-talk, know yourself and acknowledge your self-worth.

Being versatile requires emotional patience, mental resilience & spiritual guidance to come out of your comfort zone. It help to face & fight with uncertainties. It help to grab, grow & glow with new opportunities.

Versatile

 

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