Empathy in the darker times... Sunflower Trait

We keep on chasing the light, we mingle with people when they are happier, healthier and wealthier. One can constantly experience the change. There could be some poorly lit times in anyone’s life, when everything appears to be depressing or frightening.

The journey from sunny to rainy day seems to be very hard. But, when people turn towards each other to support, a warm ray of hope makes it easy to complete the journey. The nature teaches us beautifully, how to empower each other without making pomp-n-show of every generous act. 

In the long rainy days when the sun is completely covered by clouds, the many flowers get shriveled up, but sunflowers turn towards each other to share their strength and vitality. The Nature has Amazing perfection.

Let us develop the trait to empathize with people around us in their darker times..!

Never Tired... When Inspired

Don’t WORRY… don’t wait... don't waste...

Worrying is not always bad… but when you start over-thinking, it’s nastiest! Worry is being troubled by the imaginations about what can go wrong! Overthinking about anything occupies you mind and you get stuck in web you created yourself. 

Worrying take away your strength & peace, with no work done. It makes you busy but doesn’t get you anywhere. It is just messing up with your mind-power to create a trap of problems which don’t actually exist sometimes. Worrying is wasting time to wait for expectation to be true.

A little worry is always required and it push ahead, when you understands the problem and trying to find the solutions. Avoid worrying about what can’t be worked out or what can go wrong, rather work for what can make you righteously excited and active, so that you need not worry anymore!

You need not worry, if things can be made positively constructive. And, if you have done your best, even then something cannot be changed positively, then you must not ignore it but you must find best possible ways & means to handle the after effects of such things! Accept & prepare well.

Don’t worry, if people don’t understand you. Don’t worry about what others will think/do. Don’t worry about how to make others happy. Worry only if you can’t understand your self-worth.

Take deep breath, worries just exist inside your mind! It’s being busy with no play & no work! It is waste of time. Don’t disappoint life, life exist now, live it now. Free yourself and do things to make yourself happy. keep up your self-esteem high and you will never worry again.

Confidance v/s Confusion

Choice is yours...

Crawling with Confidence

v/s

Running with Confusion

Prepare Well rather than Repair Later..!!

Smile

Smile is GOD's Signature on your Face,

Don't rub it with anger...

Don't wash it with tears...

LIFE is like a flute...!

 

However, small are the eyes,

they have the capability to enjoy the beauty of sky till the horizon.

Life is a beautiful dream,

every one of us have the capability to live it beautifully,

if we make it a habit to smile.

We need to nurture only two plants… 

one is the Selfless LOVE

and

the other is unbreakable FAITH.

LIFE is long enough with lots of holes & hurdles..,

BUT one can play soothing music..,

IF one learns swinging smoothly through it..!!!

SELF-CONTROL: Secret of stink free life in this out of control world!

Will power to calmly & confidently balance the needs, desires & dreams, success & failures, highs & lows. Self-control is a most basic exercise to strengthen your mind. To avoid & ignore few things, acts & habits in order to get control over emotions, actions & desire. 

Dream big, but don’t forget to enjoy little simple things!

Results of self-control are the good health of body, mind as well as of soul. Self-control reduce the dependence on outer-world which leads to lesser expectations & lesser disappointment. If we master self-control than on one else will be able to control us. 

It is that moment when you know that is can easily do what is wrong but you exercise self-restraint to keep-up the right one. It is about choosing the fairly true, even when it is easier to travel through wrong path to reach the desired goal.

It is when we control our thoughts to manage our wards well. Don’t get offended, just  walk away from the negative people/plot/place. Every one of us is responsible for how we act & react, just because we can control our inner-self well.

One needs to practice a lot to train the body and mind to develop the self-control… Know yourself! Stick to self-designed plan… take a deep breath... backward count 10 - 0... Relax your body & mind... Analyze the act & its pro's - con's … Look at lasting outcomes... Now decide!

One should be happy, if all needs are fulfilled as well as one should not get disappointed, if some wants are still unfulfilled. 

It is greatest of all the challenges!

when you can do something… But you don’t do it!

Having self-control is not that easy... But it is a must have quality!

EXCELLENCE: putting best possible expression of who we are?

Excellence is not about being perfect, flawless or best. Rather, it is about trying your very best each time you do something. It is in your prevailing attitude, when you put your heart & soul in to the activity you do, the unexceptionally fine results becomes visible to everyone!

It is not a one-time act! Results are to be maintained and improved in every next performance. It makes you more trust-worthy & dependable. Personal excellence can be achieved with constant desire for & efforts for using your full potential to win over evil habits & weakness to achieve desired goals. Success follows the people who’s habit is to excel in whatever they do!

It doesn’t matter how small or big the task is, what matters is how well you tried to do it in an extraordinary way. It can be achieved by candid determination in intelligent direction with great dreams. It needs a skillful execution with full consideration to your strengths & areas of improvements. Smart visualisation of treats & opportunities. 

When we pursue excellence, we tend to achieve higher horizons of success every next time.

• Have confidence in your own abilities as well as courage to follow your dreams.
• Learn from the best in the field & aim for mature goals against the best. 
• Make plans, focus on efforts & put quality into everything you do.
• Have knowledge of the how you feel about yourself.
• Excellence is being truly the best at something!

A little SELF-RESTRAINT for a greater freedom!

We may no change or control what is happening around us! But, we can certainly challenge ourselves to change or control our extraordinary desires, reactions & responses to whatever is happening. Self-restraint is the virtue of mastering our own desires & passions.

Self-restrain is the will-power to face disrespect & give respectful response. Understanding of the tendency to forgo. Silence & calmness is the sign of strong self-restrain. 

It is the inner power which helps you not to do things which you are capable enough of doing but they are not so good for you or others. It is deciding that you wouldn’t do few things even if you have all the resources & ability to do that thing. It is doing what needs to be done for good future.

• Check thoughts, wards & actions. 

• Following an ideal day schedule.

• Avoiding reactions & annoyance.

• Watch out foodstuff & belonging.

Being completely happy with whatever you have in your life to free your soul and attain inner peace.

Being VERSATILE… a little more chasing every day!

• Be attentive... awareness & promptness at right time for what is going around you. 

• Be competent... gain skills to find new ways-means to deal with diverse situations. 

• Be curious... to stay current & pay attention to what is going around you. 

• Be futuristic... look for & imagine in a creative way to find & suggest goals. 

• Be humors... keep inspiring yourself to find fresh, exciting & moving topics. 

• Be ignorant... practice to set things free, they may load your mind with junk. 

• Be optimistic... overcome the roughest of challenges & attracts better opportunities. 

• Be proactive... to change or adapt to the conditions to move ahead. 

• Be quitter... learn to let go the wrong people & things at the right time. 

• Be resilient... towards your failures, barriers and inadequate-imperfect means. 

• Be respectful... understand accept other people’s choices, promises and desires. 

• Be self-corrective... gather feedback & correct deviations from desired outcome. 

• Be sympathetic... accept, acknowledge & understand what others are feeling. 

• Be tolerant... open to accepting opinions and practices different from your own. 

• Be visionary... have bigger and better view to cover all the relevant aspects. 

• Be confident... believe in your own abilities, judgements and resourcefulness. 

• Be self-disciplined... challenge ourselves to control our desires, reactions & responses. 

• Be straightforward... delusion in thoughts, wards & action creates false identity. 

• Be forgiving... get yourself free from agony of anger & hatred, it eats us alive