Confidance v/s Confusion

Choice is yours...

Crawling with Confidence

v/s

Running with Confusion

Prepare Well rather than Repair Later..!!

Smile

Smile is GOD's Signature on your Face,

Don't rub it with anger...

Don't wash it with tears...

LIFE is like a flute...!

 

However, small are the eyes,

they have the capability to enjoy the beauty of sky till the horizon.

Life is a beautiful dream,

every one of us have the capability to live it beautifully,

if we make it a habit to smile.

We need to nurture only two plants… 

one is the Selfless LOVE

and

the other is unbreakable FAITH.

LIFE is long enough with lots of holes & hurdles..,

BUT one can play soothing music..,

IF one learns swinging smoothly through it..!!!

SELF-CONTROL: Secret of stink free life in this out of control world!

Will power to calmly & confidently balance the needs, desires & dreams, success & failures, highs & lows. Self-control is a most basic exercise to strengthen your mind. To avoid & ignore few things, acts & habits in order to get control over emotions, actions & desire. 

Dream big, but don’t forget to enjoy little simple things!

Results of self-control are the good health of body, mind as well as of soul. Self-control reduce the dependence on outer-world which leads to lesser expectations & lesser disappointment. If we master self-control than on one else will be able to control us. 

It is that moment when you know that is can easily do what is wrong but you exercise self-restraint to keep-up the right one. It is about choosing the fairly true, even when it is easier to travel through wrong path to reach the desired goal.

It is when we control our thoughts to manage our wards well. Don’t get offended, just  walk away from the negative people/plot/place. Every one of us is responsible for how we act & react, just because we can control our inner-self well.

One needs to practice a lot to train the body and mind to develop the self-control… Know yourself! Stick to self-designed plan… take a deep breath... backward count 10 - 0... Relax your body & mind... Analyze the act & its pro's - con's … Look at lasting outcomes... Now decide!

One should be happy, if all needs are fulfilled as well as one should not get disappointed, if some wants are still unfulfilled. 

It is greatest of all the challenges!

when you can do something… But you don’t do it!

Having self-control is not that easy... But it is a must have quality!

EXCELLENCE: putting best possible expression of who we are?

Excellence is not about being perfect, flawless or best. Rather, it is about trying your very best each time you do something. It is in your prevailing attitude, when you put your heart & soul in to the activity you do, the unexceptionally fine results becomes visible to everyone!

It is not a one-time act! Results are to be maintained and improved in every next performance. It makes you more trust-worthy & dependable. Personal excellence can be achieved with constant desire for & efforts for using your full potential to win over evil habits & weakness to achieve desired goals. Success follows the people who’s habit is to excel in whatever they do!

It doesn’t matter how small or big the task is, what matters is how well you tried to do it in an extraordinary way. It can be achieved by candid determination in intelligent direction with great dreams. It needs a skillful execution with full consideration to your strengths & areas of improvements. Smart visualisation of treats & opportunities. 

When we pursue excellence, we tend to achieve higher horizons of success every next time.

• Have confidence in your own abilities as well as courage to follow your dreams.
• Learn from the best in the field & aim for mature goals against the best. 
• Make plans, focus on efforts & put quality into everything you do.
• Have knowledge of the how you feel about yourself.
• Excellence is being truly the best at something!

A little SELF-RESTRAINT for a greater freedom!

We may no change or control what is happening around us! But, we can certainly challenge ourselves to change or control our extraordinary desires, reactions & responses to whatever is happening. Self-restraint is the virtue of mastering our own desires & passions.

Self-restrain is the will-power to face disrespect & give respectful response. Understanding of the tendency to forgo. Silence & calmness is the sign of strong self-restrain. 

It is the inner power which helps you not to do things which you are capable enough of doing but they are not so good for you or others. It is deciding that you wouldn’t do few things even if you have all the resources & ability to do that thing. It is doing what needs to be done for good future.

• Check thoughts, wards & actions. 

• Following an ideal day schedule.

• Avoiding reactions & annoyance.

• Watch out foodstuff & belonging.

Being completely happy with whatever you have in your life to free your soul and attain inner peace.

Being VERSATILE… a little more chasing every day!

• Be attentive... awareness & promptness at right time for what is going around you. 

• Be competent... gain skills to find new ways-means to deal with diverse situations. 

• Be curious... to stay current & pay attention to what is going around you. 

• Be futuristic... look for & imagine in a creative way to find & suggest goals. 

• Be humors... keep inspiring yourself to find fresh, exciting & moving topics. 

• Be ignorant... practice to set things free, they may load your mind with junk. 

• Be optimistic... overcome the roughest of challenges & attracts better opportunities. 

• Be proactive... to change or adapt to the conditions to move ahead. 

• Be quitter... learn to let go the wrong people & things at the right time. 

• Be resilient... towards your failures, barriers and inadequate-imperfect means. 

• Be respectful... understand accept other people’s choices, promises and desires. 

• Be self-corrective... gather feedback & correct deviations from desired outcome. 

• Be sympathetic... accept, acknowledge & understand what others are feeling. 

• Be tolerant... open to accepting opinions and practices different from your own. 

• Be visionary... have bigger and better view to cover all the relevant aspects. 

• Be confident... believe in your own abilities, judgements and resourcefulness. 

• Be self-disciplined... challenge ourselves to control our desires, reactions & responses. 

• Be straightforward... delusion in thoughts, wards & action creates false identity. 

• Be forgiving... get yourself free from agony of anger & hatred, it eats us alive

STRAIGHT-FORWARDNESS is a step forward for enlightened growth!

Delusion in thoughts creates false identity. An individual who think something, saying something else and do something entirely different; such an individual fails to maintain his trustworthiness. Such individuals lives with continuous fear of their trick being uncovered. Such deceitful actions lead to the influx of stress. 

Lack of drama & mind games makes things very easy. Sometimes straight forwardness is unpleasant but effective. Don’t confuse straight-forwardness with rudeness. Rudeness is just an imitation of strength. Saying what you feel & what you believe, it is how you can handle the truth, it’s being real and straightforwardness is real strength. But, don’t let your straight-forwardness become rudeness. 

First, be honest to yourself and recognize your true self. One should practice to have divine harmony in your thought, wards and actions. It’s a state of supreme bliss. Bring straight-forwardness by being true & honest to self and everyone else. Then, you will never need to think twice before any action or opinion. 

Say things straight up to other person’s face. Avoid talks behind other’s back. Avoid bring up the past in between. Avoid talking about yourself all the time. Avoid speaking more rather listen more. If you can’t understand things, then you can’t explain them in simple ways. Be real… and forgive yourself for 'the perfection is not achieved'. Don’t be afraid of being straightforward, it is a step forward for enlightened growth.

FORGIVE

Although, it is not always easy to forgive. Sometimes the pain is deeper than the wounds visible to the world. Stop touching & scratching the wounds, if you want to heal them. It doesn’t approve what happened was correct. But, when you don’t forgive, then you are the one who is inflicting the sufferings. Every time you forgive others or ask for forgiveness, you move towards perfection, with lesser mistakes each day, towards stress free life each moment. It’s better to grab the awakening lessons & move on with a positive attitude.

Read More:  FORGIVE Quickly..! It’s an art to win over the natural instinct to pay back evil with evil.

Choose to be GENTLE... thoughtful wards & mild manners..!

Gentleness is divine. It is understanding others & being kind towards them with a fellow feeling. Leave all your pride and believe that every soul is equal in order to understand your own true self.

All that is won by force is temporary. Don’t raise your voice or hands or desires; raise them for prayer, praise & dreams only. You have potential to control or even damage the thing, but still choose to be careful about your wards & action.

Gentleness can only be expected from strong by not being angry and cruel. Don’t be offensive rather be gentle, it needs courage to keep your powers & strength under control.