FAILURE: Just a warning, re-route & go ahead.

The interesting stories of failures of iconically successful people that teaches us the great lessons and warnings as well. The story of how these courageous people managed to bounce back confidently & how they failed again but kept on trying to live their dreams. 

Don’t question yourself while you think of some unique plans. Be prepared to be wrong; don't judge yourself, don’t refuse to get up & try again to achieve something unusual. Failure brings disappointment, motivate the self to learn, it’s an opportunity to change & succeed. 

When purposes & competition are supreme, even failures are splendid. Generally failures are perceived to be more public & everyone try to avoid failures. It is more bothered about than success. What counts is the daring to carry on with positivity & look forward confidently? 

Success is easy to find and failure is even more easier to be kept by not trying again. Failure is letting go the chance to try and win. Pains of taking back foot last forever, better collect the self-confidence to win over the terror of failure.

Only a real fall can tell you the altitude on which you are standing now. It helps get proper perspective & a chance to revise your strength to wisely bounce back higher. Failures are not dead-ends but they are the signals that you need to re-route your journey towards success.

Push your limits to live the better failures next time and enjoy the ultimate supreme success.

COMPETITION: Outshine Yourown Bygone!

Our competition decides the greatness of our success. Success achieved or even failures against some worth competing superior fellow is a matter of honor. If you have great competitors, that’s is your luck that you have got a chance to grab, grow and glow.

Don’t compare yourself with anyone else. For a toddler, standing on his own feet for the first time is most joyous moment of success. Toddlers compete with themselves. For an Olympian, it is going to be different. First know & accept ‘Who are you?’ & try to be a better person.

Don’t think about how society defines the completion for you. It’s your take, you only can decide to whom to compete & for what to compete. You only can find the perfect competition for your game. You can only decide what different you want to do for society.

Success always follow the willpower to do things flawlessly. Competition as well as Success has no limits & you have infinite energy. You can always revisit & review your dreams for a better version of it. Put your head & heart in whatever you do.

Be confident.

Be a matter of competition to others.

FEAR: Raise above, it’s absolutely your choice!

People will always tell “don’t do it. It’s very tough, you don’t know, you can’t do this, you will get injured, you will fail, and so on…” You don’t need everyone to like you for listening to them, better avoid or else ignore them.

At least try it once, scars of failure are better than regretting forever. Don’t be afraid of being slow or average or . . . have patience, keep trying & doing little things rather than doing nothing. 

Self-created or majority of times, fear is induced by others also. You have fear when you have something important enough to be lost or achieved. 

Fear is a sensation conceived due to perceived vulnerability. Fear kills hopes & dreams. Fear covers up your wisdom. Don’t hold on the fear, it will lead to anger, hatred and stress. 

Fear is wondering & waiting for what worse can happen. While, courage is facing & fighting with fear and making things happen. 

Spirit to strive for success should be strike of fear of failure. Knowledge & understanding nurtures the courage. Faith in yourself will ascertain a positive way to ensure success and live your dream.

It is the greatest fight with yourself. It’s not your weakness but your fear that ensues failures when you RUN away from taking risk & competition. Never let momentary fear decide your fate. 

Fighting fear may give you the most adventurous memories to be cherished forever. Freedom from fear is freedom from failure.

It’s nearly impossible to be fearless; it will exist forever, but we can always overthrow fear by breaking our comfort zone. Don’t miss a single smallest chance to defeat fear.

ANGER: unInvited dAnger for yourSelf.

Anger is absolutely normal but it may create huge complications. Even though you are correct. Anger is very difficult to be justified as well as judged. It makes you irrationally emotional for a while.

But, Holding back the angry hurts physical, mental & spiritual health. Try to explain your anger calmly. You can keep arguments on but let go off the anger.

Anger should be managed rather than controlled. It's all about find alternative way outs.

• Breathe deep to relax and repeat “take it easy”. Concentrate on resolving the issue & try to bounce back to the well-deserved peace for self.

• Working on timing, ignoring & avoiding the unnecessary things. Practice patience, silence & listening for better understanding & response.

• Spare yourself! Give a break by changing your immediate surrounding. Make yourself so worthy that people think twice before they make you angry.

• Better, forgive the people you love & forget the people you don’t love. Stop caring the people, they will than start noticing your importance in their life.

Anger is an involuntary choose most of the times. It is an intense emotional response to a perceived provocation & unfulfilled expectations. It is a strong & serious emotion of annoyance, displeasure, or hostility.

Don’t let your anger consume your peace and energy. Don’t let your tongue work faster than mind. Anger management will help you to grow beyond what you were with greater self confidence.

DREAMS: Enjoy the Flight & the Stars!

Efforts to make dreams come true will give you a treasure of adventurous memories. Dream big and beautiful. Dreams are the ideas of original & unbiased mind. It is an aspirational thought but then what is life without dreaming about a moon shot? Dreams are the wildest plan to act upon now.

Be the first to see the new opportunities around. Be the one who develop the new opportunities. Be the grabber of old - familiar opportunities that were over-looked in past. There are limitless possibilities hiding within yourself, explore them, explain them & exploit them.

It is your opinion that counts the most about your dream goals. Don’t doubt your dreams. Dreams may scare you at first; dreams may not let you sleep. So, don’t let go of your dreams in any state of affairs. Take efforts to push yourself forward with your dreams; no magic works here.

Believe in your dream with heart and soul. Act on your dreams with eye and mind open. Have patience when time test you. Don’t give up till you try the last unturned stone. Don’t let your past mistakes crush your mind; rather use them as platform to view new skylines.

Set yourself free to think-n-act fresh; live your dreams & enjoy life.

SELF WORTH: Empowers you to trust yourself.

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STRESS: make us do some charismatic things!

Stress is neither bad as we think of it nor it is that good. It’s okay to be stressed out, if we can manage it well. If it flows in right direction, it becomes the key to sugar coated success. If it flow in wrong direction, it puts a deadlock over possibilities of success.

Stress get converted into negative vibes, when we add performance pressure, created due to expectations of people around us. Avoid such creators of anxiety. Avoid such destructor of self-confidence. Surpass the stress to win over ‘terror of failure’.

Let’s convert the short-term stress into eustress. Stress is not always negative. It can motivate us to prepare and perform better. It push us forward & make us do some charismatic things & achieve beyond expectations. We have to teach ourselves to manage it.

👉Awareness of initiators of stress: finding the reason & expectation behind particular feelings & count the occurrence of such feeling.
👉Stuffs that nurture the stress: finding & avoid plot, people, place who keep these feelings awake for long & don’t let go it.
👉Way of communicating the stress: listen more & finding the composed way these feeling can be conveyed to people around.

We need to Understand and accept the stress. Indeed,’ Compassion for stress’ can keep us motivated. An undesirable event is not end of everything in life; don’t let that get to you too much!

It’s about doing the right thing in the right way, without over-thinking about it. Take it easy, separate it with other thing, slow-down a little, be calm, simplify the things, have sensible analysis & response.

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EMOTIONS says ‘Put Nice Nicknames to Me’

It is how our brainpower listen & respond to our inner voice. Emotions are the complex by-product of our hard-working heart.

In our busy schedule; we not only forget to take care of our own emotional health; but we also fails to understand how people feel around us.

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I Found ME

I am ME

👉Can we build “I am ME?” a sense of our own value which is fairly true to ourselves? Of course yes; look for positive associations with others and just list down your personal strengths, abilities & areas of improvements. Then; set achievable goals based on your needs, wants & desires. Recognise your achievements at each milestone on the way and don’t forget to reward yourselves… you will surely come to know the awesome “Who” you are...  Read More on Self WORTH

👉A journey from “I wish I had” to “I’m glad I did”. Remember you can have anything in this world, if you just have faith in yourself. Self-esteem is key to great social effectiveness. Chin-up sweetie you are intelligent… beautiful… smart… adorable… successful… in your own unique way... Read More on Self ESTEEM

👉Don’t worry, if you don’t succeed, it may be beyond your mental or physical capabilities. You can always start something new or different. The world has seen many business tycoons who have failed in launching a product, but they don’t stop, they try another thing. If you can defeat ‘terror of failure’ by your 'craving for victory', no one can let you down... Read More on Self CONFIDENCE

LISTEN: To Whom? To What? Confused all the time!

To whom should I Listen "the outer world or the inner self"? 😇

Our capability to listen effectively to the voice of outer world is judged. It’s our ability to absorb the inputs from outer world with open mind, congestion free heart & a generous soul. A desire of being a better listener comes with many benefits: easily approachable, become trust worthy & get more information.

Our talent & desire to realise, understand and accept the voice of inner self; is the most neglected but surprisingly; the most essential listening skill. Voice of inner self include the thoughts from mind, the emotions from heart and the passion from soul. 

😊 Listening to self is a ground work, before you appear as a listener in front of the world. Look inside yourself, to have confident eye contact with speaker.
😐Have empathy while listening; for a better understanding of the feelings & words of the speaker. Avoid developing & offering an immediate solution. Rather, be a facilitator to find a solution.
😉 Ask appropriate questions to the speaker to clarify and conform the main idea. Remember to give conscious feedback through words & facial expressions.

Objective is to LISTEN to absorb, understand & LEARN. First of all, acknowledge that you have listen keenly. Wait a while, be patient before you evaluate, judge, form any opinion & convey the reply.

All in all, before we start speaking, we need to complete the listening first.